Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Our (not-so-wonderful) trip to the ER....
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Looking for a good book???
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(PS: I had to eat a piece of shrimp (ick!) on a dare in order to be the inspiration for the girl on the cover of the Hunter Brown book! Whoo Hoo!! Thats my claim to fame!)


Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Monday, July 28, 2008
Norahs first trip to the Dr...and the mall!!

Friday, July 25, 2008
Worlds Longest Birth Story....begins now!!

Preface/Set-Up: After my c-section with Jacob, I was determined to try for a vbac (vaginal birth after ceserean) this time with Norah. I wanted to experience the instant connection with my baby. I wanted to feel her on my chest within seconds of birth and witness the little things like seeing her get weighed, measure her length, and be able to watch Steven cut her cord. None of this was an option with Jacobs birth. I felt alone in the recovery room while everyone else was admiring him and watching his first moments. With Jacob, I was able to dilate to a 10, after 32 long hours and push for 4 hours but because of the position of his head he wouldnt budge and therefore, resulted in a c-section. Although I wasnt considered an "ideal" candidate for a vbac I wasnt ruled out either and my Doctor was willing to let me go for it. Ideally, she would have liked for me to go into labor on my own for a higher success rate but thankfully she was still willing to induce me. (even when many Doctors wouldnt) can I tell you how much I loved my Doctor...seriously.
Induction Day: 41 weeks 5 daysWe went in at 7:30am which turned out to be one of the busiest days labor and delivery had seen in a long time. I heard they actually had to cancel a few inductions that morning because of the mayhem. Im so glad I wasnt one of them! My first check was at 9:00 am and I was at a 3. Which was a cm more than at last weeks appt. Because I was at a 3 already, my Dr decided to just go with the Pitocin because the foley catheter automatically falls out at a 3 and would have been pointless. So once I was hooked up to the Pitocin around 10ish we all just kinda waited. We walked the hallways and bounced on the birthing ball. I was determined to get out of bed this time and not stay in bed all labor like I did with Jacob. The walking and the birthing ball felt incredibly good and relieved a lot of pressure. One of my favorite shows, "The First 48" was having a marathon all day so thats what stayed on tv all afternoon :) hehe. My parents and Jacob came by for lunch and I was still feeling really good. When they left to take Jacob home for a nap the contractions slowly began to intensify and become more regular. I was checked at 3pm and was a 4. Although it seemed like little progress at the time, my Doctor was very pleased and remained hopeful things may start to progress a little faster. I was now considered in active labor. Stevens family stopped by that afternoon and thats when things were getting even stronger. Painful but still managable. Stevens family left to go to my parents house for dinner and hang out until they heard from us again. My great friends Morgan and Michelle stopped by with the kids and it was so nice to see them, right before that I was given Fentanyl to help take the edge off because I still wasnt ready for an epidural. I was feeling good...and hope I made sense when I was chatting with them :) Since the Fentanyl was so short lived I was able to get one more dose before the epidural. I actually considered laboring naturally...but then I realized my water hadnt been broken yet and I've often heard that one the water breaks, the contractions can get extreme. The thought of that scared me so I opted for the epidural. Because of the craziness that day my nurse convinced me to get the epidural sooner rather than later because of the chance we may have to wait for awhile as other moms were quicky requesting their drugs....and the amount of c-sections going on that day. (There were at least 7 done that day) Needless to say, my anesthesiologist was hot property. Ironically, it was her last day as she was going to be moving to Hawaii to continue working at a hospital down there, the staff threw her a luau and even I got a piece of her chocolate cake! After I got the epidural, my Doctor decided to go ahead and break my water in hopes of kicking it into gear. I was checked less than an hour later and was at a good 6. She told me she could easily strectch me to an 8 if she needed to. So we updated our parents and just continued to wait. Within an hour, I was checked again and officially at an 8. Made another call and told them they might want to start heading our direction. Assuming this was going to be like Jacobs delivery, no one was in a real hurry and thought we still had some time so they all cleaned up dinner and made a phone call or two and Stevens Mom and Dad dropped his brother off at our place to house sit while we were gone...and for the first time ever, my parents forgot the cell phone. My nurse began telling me about some pressure I would begin to feel that is not masked by the epidural. At that same time she said that, I began feeling pressure...not regularly but I now knew what she was talking about. Within 10 minutes it wasnt going away and she checked me. I was at a 9 and she had me do a "trial" push when resulted in me now at a 10.
Labor: I knew I wanted my mom with me really bad so we began urgently calling her...and got no answer. My nurse predicted I had about 45 minutes to push and asked me what I would like to do. I decided to begin pushing because for sure it wouldnt take that long to get to the hospital from where they live. I started pushing and about 30 minutes into it my mom came into the room and had was shocked to see I was ready to go! She instantly started tearing up and we both realized that I was really doing it!! The whole time I used a mirror and am so glad I did. I was able to watch everything and my nurse did a great job keeping everything nice and "tidy" for me to see. It helped me focus on where to direct my pushing and as Norah inched her way down the canal, I could see more and more of her head which was also very motivating! The sheer determination of wanting to avoid the c-section gave me so much strength. Its amazing what your mind and body can do when you want something so badly. The hospital was so busy that night, that I didnt end up seeing my Doctor for the first time until my very last push! She had been in back to back c-sections. I didnt mind at all because I had the best nurse ever! She was amazing and basically delivered Norah! She helped me so much when it came down to pushing. So finally when Norahs head began to come out they had me stop and thats when I knew, I had succeeded! One last push and out she came!! It was the best feeling ever! (Im literally tearing up typing this because I am so happy) Norah weighed 8lbs 14oz and was 21" long. She was placed on my chest and felt so warm and gooey :) in a good way! It was instantly love at first sight. She came out and I was shocked to see her hair was much lighter than Jacobs was and when I saw her eyes for a few seconds, I noticed they were also much lighter. I am very curious to see if shes going to have Stevens features. Regardless, this was hands down, my biggest accomplishment and am so glad I never second guessed my decision. I felt at peace with it my entire pregnancy. Praise be to God as I know there were so many people praying for us...I am so blessed.
Recovery: When Norah came out I recieved a 3rd degree partial tear....I watched them sew up the whole thing and it was quite facinating. It took a lot longer than I thought for the repair, but I was able to watch everything that was going on with Norah including the cutting of the cord, her weight, her height, apgar tests and her eye treatments!! I was on cloud 9 and could have cared less what was going on down below. Steven was quite interested as well because he insisted on taking pictures of the placenta...he also snapped a few shots of me pushing my brains out too!! I told him he needs a job in photo journalism!! He was elated that he got to cut her cord and I was in awe at everything going on around me. The recovery has been so much easier (even with the tear!) than I thought. The nurses made sure I was current with the pain meds and just seeing her makes everything so worth it. I've been able to use the bathroom with no problem either...my other fear! I want to personally thank the makers of Tucks, Dermaplast, and whoever makes those big panties and the peri-bottle :) as they have been a wonderful new addition to our bathroom. Norah checked out perfectly at both of her Pediactric visits and all the tests have come back great! We're scheduled to take her to her first appt on Monday. She was born a professional breastfeeder which has been wonderful, except for the fact thats all she wants to do! I've turned into gumby but its such a small sacrifice for so little time I dont mind at all!! It just means my milk is due to come in at any time!
I just want to thank my Mom and Dad for taking Jacob all this week as well as Stevens parents and brother for driving so many hours to check in on your newest granddaughter :) I also want to thank Katie and Jason, Chris and Angela, Danielle and Terry, Morgan, Michelle, Dave and Michelle, Carly, Pam, Stepheni, Suzie and Andy and Jessica for taking time out of your day to come down and see us!! It was so nice to see familiar faces all day long!!
**For those of you even considering a vbac I cant say enough how glad I am that I did it. I had so many things against me for example: I had a large baby and I needed to be induced. But my induction still ended up being textbook. From start to finish I was only in labor for 6 hours and 35 minutes. The recovery from the tear is nothing compared to the healing of the c-section, and I healed quickly from that (I was at the mall at 4 days post pardum) Its helped in taking care of Jacob as well. He can sit on my lap and I can easily play on the floor with him. I have no driving restrictions and I was able to eat a full meal right after her birth. Besides a little tenderness when I sit for too long, I feel as though I never had a baby. My bleeding has stopped completely and generally feel great. I hope this helps some of you as I know there arent a lot of resources from women who have done it...and I know the extra support would have been great for me. If you have any further questions do not hesitate to email me at LuvBug12683@hotmail.com I'd be glad to expand on anything you have read :)
**Stay tuned for some professional pics coming soon!!
Here are a few to hold you over right now....



Monday, July 21, 2008
Wake-Up, Shower, Eat, Have a Baby!!
Now, onto baby news...I went in this morning for another NST (Non-Stress Test) which she passed again so which allows us to continue with the induction tomorrow. I am so anxious to meet her and hold a newborn again! Like I've said before, I would love to see you all while Im there! (Tacoma General) nothing like seeing a familiar face in a not so familiar setting. And I may go stir crazy staring at the retro 80's looking wallpaper :) I will try and send text messages and or update the blog/myspace during the day...hopefully it wont take too long but we'll see...thank you everyone for all your thoughts and prayers as they mean SO much to us.
Next time you read this we'll be a family of 4....Eeekkkk!!!!!
Love, Keren
100% Edible...and delicious too!
Doesnt Steve look good!?!


Mom and Baby girls!!

Dance floor complete with DJ, Fog machine and lights!!
Friday, July 18, 2008
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Norah's Eviction Notice: Date set- July 22
Well as you can tell, Im still here...and pregnant. :) Go figure! We had some good friends out of town on vacation this week so Im convinced she was waiting for them to get back!! I was given an ultrasound to make sure her fluid levels were where they are supposed to be and also given a NST (Non-Stress Test) which is very common in babies that are overdue. Its basically 2 monitors attached to my belly and it measures the strength of my contractions to Norah's heartrate. It was amazing to watch and hear. I had to do it for 20 minutes and she passed with flying colors!! (Thats my girl!!) My Dr likes to have them done every 4-5 days until she's born so Im scheduled to do another on Monday. It was amazing to hear her heartrate increase as I was contracting...what a peaceful sound!! I just watched the machine and started daydreaming about what shes going to look like and who's personality she's going to have...it was a nice 20 minutes of just reflection on this whole pregnancy. I thought my water broke this morning...unfortunatley I was wrong but she did test it to make sure. Oh well...thats the story of my life!! I am scheduled for an induction on Tuesday the 22nd. We are supposed to call that morning at 6am to find out what time we should "check in". On call for the first part of the day is a Dr I have not met before but from what I've heard, he's wonderful and funny and has a great personality. Im excited to meet him! That evening my Doctor is on call which Im really excited for!! I love her so much and am going to be very sad when I dont get to see her on these weekly visits anymore!! When we were talking today I was encouraged by the fact that shes more "tolerant" when it comes to inductions on vbacs shes more willing than other Doctors to let me labor longer as long as there's some sort of progress. I guess a lot of times Doctors are more "conservative" when it comes to how long we can labor (re: vbac inductions) she even mentioned that it can take up to 48 hours...I'll be as patient as I have to be as long as Norah remaines strong. Jacobs labor lasted 36 hours so whats 12 more?? (Joking!) Im hopeful that since Im already at a 2 that will help kick things into motion on Tuesday. When I was induced with Jacob I was at a 0 and it seemed to take forever to just get to the 2 marker. Prayer had been a very intrical part of my life these last few months and I just continue to put all of my trust in God because he is the ultimate physician and is in complete control. I know he wont put me in a situation that I cannot handle and I have an amazing sense of peace because of it. Faith is awesome!!
Until next time,
Keren
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Making History...

Well I'm still here...and dont feel any different ... Im beginning to think I will be the 1st woman in history to be pregnant forever!! I called my Drs office to "confirm" an induction date and as the nurse read back the notes my Dr had writted it said "Keren may go up to 42 weeks, as long and patient and baby are doing fine" ...the nurse looked in the "books" and my name is not written down for the 18th..or 22nd...so Im assuming I could potentially go to the 24th (which would be 42 weeks exactly..) I should get some kind of reward for this eh? :) j/k! I am getting a reward...Norah!! Ouch...42 weeks seems like an eternity...especially since she was due on the 10th!! It doesnt help when my friend Colleen who wasnt due until today had her baby boy last week...(yes, a week early) and Amberlyn is contracting with her little boy and isnt due until the begininning of August!! Ah!! Ok...vent over with :)
Today my dad and I (and Jacob) went to the Point Defiance Zoo for an outing and lunch!! It was a lot of fun and I can really appreciate the membership my parents bought for us back at Christmas...its come in handy quite a bit! The new meerkat exhibit is open now so we were able to show Jacob a new part of the zoo. He got quite a kick of them and thought they were "kitties"...hard to explain to a 21 month old the difference...so we played along :)
Thanks to the MOPS leadership board, I am getting a hour long pregnancy massage tonight at 6pm!! I cannot wait!! Im hopeful that maybe my therapist has "the touch"! We'll see :) My friend Stepheni has already told me she's got money on Norah's arrival in the next 24 hours....I can only hope right?? Well Im going to pick up the house a bit before Steven gets home...here are a few of my favorite pictures from today at the zoo! :)
Adios!
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Checking In...
::Ok, Norah, thats your cue to get out!!!::
Adios!
Keren
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Is the 3rd time a charm....??
Well...Jacobs decided to wake up from his nap...time to get ready!!
::Will keep you posted!!::
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Daily (or Nightly) Check-In...
(Just Kidding!)
Yesterday, Jacob and I made a trip to "The Wal" aka Wal-Mart, I thought for sure with all the stress thats causes by shopping there, something is bound to happen...but no. Nothing.The next attempt was going to Amys b-day party (which was kid free too! Thanks mom and dad!) We had such a wonderful time with our friends and also managed to play a few board games!! I thought with all the excitement, maybe Norah would pop her little body out...but no. Nothing.
Attempt number 3 was an intense walk at Bradley Lake Park with Christia and Barry, Carly, Suzie and Me (and the kiddos!) I started to get really crampy...but no. Nothing. I had a lot of fun watching all the kids enjoying themselves on the big toy and that in itself was worth the trip...next stop, Pioneer Park tomorrow morning.Jacob and I had a pool party this afternoon in our back yard. Best investment this summer by far! We've been blessed with a long streak of nice weather, I really can't complain!! (maybe I'll try washing the car tomorrow...thats always a good workout!)
Thursday I have a Dr appt and Friday I made and appt with Dr. Xu (The accupuncturist) who comes highly recommended by quite a few people. And as I talked to him today I really liked him...He acted as if I just come in there, get the accupuncture, and boom...have a baby! Wishful thinking...maybe, but Im willing to try it out!!Oh and I must welcome to the world of blogging: Mandi, Jessica and Michelle...well at least they're new on Blogspot...man my list is growing like crazy, its a quick and easy way to keep up with everyone and their busy lives!!
Tonight Jacob and I went to Christys house for an evening of socializing! It was such a fun time and I wish we could do that more often!! The summer just get so hectic and time flies by so fast, it seems like September is right around the corner :( yikes, that means I'll have a 2 month old by then!! All of the kids played in her ginormous back yard while us mommies sat under the umbrella set and chowed down on some amazing food...as always!
I am so lucky to have such a wonderful circle of friends!!
"Your friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you." - Elbert Hubard
"The best way to keep your friends is not to give them away." - Wilson Mizner
"I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends." - Walt Whitman
...and on that happy note
Goodnight!
PS: Please dont hesitate at all about coming on down to the hospital(Tacoma General)!! I'd love to see everyone!! Unfortunatley a few of my closest friends just left this week for a few days so I was pretty bummed to think they might not make it but yes, Id love the extra company!! (Especially if I have to recover from yet another C-section!)
::Still keeping my fingers crossed!!::
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Still Here...Unfortunatley!!
Come out Norah!!! Daddy is working in Burien all next week and the drive home will take forever!
Will keep you all posted...
-Keren


















